100 days in the NICU

   I promise I am going to get you all caught up on my journal entries to Berkley soon so you can see what our day to day journey is like and how far he has came.  Life has been a little crazy with me going back to work, hospital visits, driving back and forth to Florence and Huntsville, and moving.  GOD IS SO GOOD! Through it all, we are smiling! Berkley has made tremendous leaps the last few weeks.  We are closer and closer to going home with each day.  I’ve had a lot on my heart lately and just not the time to share it all. Today, I am making time. As we approach 100 days, there are so many things I want to share with other Moms. So take what you would like.  If you have met me on the right emotional day, you know I’m a talker so I tend to do that when I write as well. J

   100 days.  Let that soak in.  That’s right, 100 days in the NICU. 1-0-0 days that your baby is in the hospital!!! Some days it feels like just yesterday when Berkley was born. Others make it feel like it was years ago.  Every. Single. Day. weighs on you.  There is no way around it. No matter how positive you stay, there WILL be days that just tear you down.  Being completely transparent, I cry… I cry a lot.  Do people see me do it? Most days – no. My husband, Wes, will tell you I am a super emotional person.  I get teary – eyed at everything even before Berkley.  (P.S. I love you, The Notebook, and Marley & Me get me every single time!)  Never be ashamed that you cry.  Tears are our way to let go of the stress, anxiety, worry, and fear. BUT some days, you do need to wipe those tears away and focus on what is good! Whatever it may be. For us, it was that Berkley has never had any digestive issues or feeding problems. We thanked God everyday for this.  (He is now up to 5lbs 11oz from that 1lb 14oz little baby!) Each baby has their own problem as preemies.  But they also have something we can be positive about as parents.  I thank God everyday when I pray over Berkley in the morning. I thank him for Berkley being here with us and what is going right.  I pray for items that Berkley needs strength on.  (In our case it has always been his lungs. Berkley was on the vent for a VERY long time!)  I tell you this as a Mom that is there every day with their baby - If you focus too much on the bad and the situation we are in, it will tear you apart.  We all deal with things our own way.  I just encourage each of you to thank God for something that is going right with your baby atleast once a day.  (God must be in your life to give you comfort and strength. Philippians 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengths me.”)

   In the beginning, you are so worried about your baby, that nothing else crosses your mind.  You do not realize all the other emotions you are going to have.  First, having hormones AFTER a baby – who knew they were so crazy?!?! Secondly, you add having a baby in the NICU where all the fears and anxiety are doubled – you might as well count on emotions being high.  You get your feelings hurt easily.  (Atleast, I do.)  At first your feelings are hurt by nurses who are completely doing their job and putting your baby’s health as a #1 priority.  As the Mom though, all we hear is “give me your baby back”, “you can’t take care of him/her as well as we can”, “it’s time for you to go”, etc.  Looking back, my feelings were hurt by silly things and I LOVE each and every nurse that Berkley has had. (YOU HAVE BEEN LIFESAVERS FOR HIM AND FOR US! WE LOVE YOU!!)  Secondly, your feelings will be hurt by family and friends.  It’s so hard for them to understand at first why you are distant, to comprehend that your life has been completely turned upside down, and to understand you wanted the stretch marks and hot, humid, awful summer pregnancy. You’ll be pleasantly surprised by the amount of STRANGERS that offer help and your family/friends that bring food, send love, support, and prayers, or even something that will make you smile for a minute like a ‘thinking about you’ card.  Your feelings will get hurt unexpectedly when people you love do not come visit you at the hospital and their life carries on as normal.  It’s crazy, but as a NICU parent, you feel like their world should stop rotating just like yours did.  The world stands still when you are behind those locked doors of the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit.  Every week, my feelings get hurt.  That’s part of being here 100 days – your emotions run high.  (Wesley, I love you so for putting up with me!)

  The biggest part of this hurtful journey – your baby.  The pain that the NICU can cause is unbearable some days – but if you will let it, you can find JOY there too.  Our world rotates around Berkley.  We are there every care time if we aren’t at work. (We thank GOD for the means and flexibility to be able to do this.  Johnny and Christie – THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! and Mayfair Church of Christ for the Shanon House!) Berkley’s journey has not been easy, but compared to others it has been.  We have seen families come in and out as we have waited patiently for our turn.  We have cheered on other folks that have been there forever and truly celebrated with them when they got to go home.  We have sat by the bed and cried.  We have cried happy tears when celebrating milestones.  We have called dibs on this diaper or snuggle time.  I have taken LOTS of pictures! We have tried to make this as normal as we can.  But, the fact is, this is not normal. You can make the best out of it by making your marriage stronger, building relationships with the staff, and loving your baby with every single ounce of your being.  I truly believe Berkley pulls from us on some days.  If we are full of anxiety and stress, he can feel that.  But if we are positive and just love him (truly what our job is as parents) then he can pull from that as well.  I read a quote today that I loved. “A MOTHER’S LOVE IS THE FUEL THAT ENABLES A NORMAL HUMAN BEING TO DO THE IMPOSSIBLE.”  That’s what we are doing every day – the impossible. One day, we will look back and think, ‘how did we make it through it?’ (For us, the answer is God. 1John 5:14-15; Ephesians 6:18; Jeremiah 29:12; and Mark 11:24)  I pray one day soon, all of you wake up in the middle of the night to you baby crying.  I know I will cry happy tears when that day comes.  I pray for all of you every day and will continue to long after we go home. I am thankful for this journey as it has been an eye-opener for us. I think about the families that have been here longer than 100 days.  You inspire me and give me strength just by wearing a smile on your face.  I hope I can do that for the Moms following in my footsteps.

To all Moms – Lean on God. Ask God. He will answer. He loves you. 

Days 37 - 39

Day 37
Dear Berkley,
   Today, Dr. Buckley came and let us know that your incision is looking great. You are at 2lbs 13oz and holding strong.  Length is 14.25.  Your feeds are up to 23mL every 3 hours.  You did great during cares today and even had the heaviest diaper ever at 58! Overall a busy day, but uneventful.  I pray that you can rest more this week.  You have had a busy few weeks and need some sleep to help you grow!  You are moving in the right direction.

Day 38
Dear Berkley,
   Somedays I just ask why.  Today is one of those.  So much for uneventful days! Today was a DOOZY! We got a call in the middle of the night that you had spit up and was desating quite a bit. (Desating is when the saturation of oxygen in his blood goes below his parameters they have set.) You have never spit up before.  They believe maybe you had some aspiration. (Milk got into his lungs when he took a breath.) So they had a respiratory therapist doing some chest therapy at your 8am cares. With your desats, they want to try to break up any mucus you may have in your lung and help your right lung open back up.  It has collapsed from the air sacks being stuck together.  From what I understand, this could be from the mucus or from the milk aspiration.
  Mrs. Amanda had you today which we both loved.  She can always calm us both down and is great at explaining the information to Mom and Dad. Dr. Prada was here today as well. She ordered an xray on your lungs since your labs showed your carbon dioxide was high. Your tube placement was a little off so they moved your tube to 6.8.  (It has been at 7.5 since the beginning.) Your oxygen levels were the highest they have been at 50-55. I sat with you awhile trying to comfort you and to help with desats. You calmed down and got to about 46-48 and then the tech showed to give you an ultrasound that Dr. Buckley ordered. (More on that in a bit.) Shortly, after the ultrasound we found out you needed a blood transfusion. I am trying hard to leave this all at God's feet.  But I am so scared and worried.  You looked uncomfortable today. I felt overwhelmed and I know you had to be as well.  You were not a happy camper! Your vent settings - oxygen levels, rate, and pressure - all were higher throughout the day. Dr. Prada sat with us and explained a lot about what was happening with your lungs. They are going to order some more labs and a trachea culture to check for an infection or bacteria. I asked for special prayer request for you tonight.
  Back to Dr. Buckley.  He came in this morning and ordered an ultrasound because your leg looked more swollen than it did yesterday.  After reviewing the ultrasound, he is going to do surgery again tomorrow. He believes you have some more infection in your leg that has built up again toward the bottom of your femur. He will have to do a second incision. I know you are tired - tired of being poked, tired of IVs, and tired of surgeries.   You have had so many IVs lately, it's hard to find a vein now.  When they needed one to prep you for surgery - you had all sorts of attention from  Amanda, Beth K, Hannah M, and NPs Hannah and Emily to find a good vein. The day was super long. I pray this is all over soon for you. Even though you were exhausted, you peaked one little eye open tonight for us.  I know you are wore out. I wish I could take your place. I wish I could make it better.  Tomorrow will be better, sweet dreams.

Day 39
Dear Berkley,
  Another surgery has came and went.  We are so proud of you! You did so well! The surgery went very smooth. It took about an hour.  Dr. Buckley will be back to keep an eye on both incisions and your leg. He is a great doctor! This incision does not have a drain tube.  He packed gauze in the cut in order to soak up any infection that is left. You are resting well with your pain medicine.  Respiratory settings are still high at 45 rate and 26/9 pressure.  Hopefully we will know soon what is causing the new issue with your breathing.  They expect you to need blood later tonight and will do some more labs.
  Gammy brought us a mustard seed today.  Matthew 17:20 " I tell you the truth, if you had FAITH even as small as a mustard seed, you could say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it would move.  Nothing would be impossible."  We can MOVE MOUNTAINS with faith, buddy!

Sleep sweet. Grow big. Be brave. I love you.

Days 24 - 26

Day 24
Dear Berkley,
   Today, I got to kangaroo with you for about two hours and Gammy stayed and sat with us. You are looking better every day since surgery. A lot of your swelling is gone. You are growing bigger and getting stronger. You were back to your feisty self today which I love. First day since surgery that you have been more alert and back to yourself.

Day 25
Dear Berkley,
   Today is just Daddy and you. I was at the ER with a fever last night. Since they aren't sure what's causing it, I'm staying away from you and the other babies for 24 hours to be safe. it's so hard to not come and see you. I think I drove the nurse crazy today in between Dad's visits. You are up to 15mL in feedings. You have some swelling in your right leg and feet but they think thats just fluid from surgery.
 Scripture from devotional today was Isaiah 49:23 "Those who hope in me will not be disappointed." We have been and will continue to put all of our hope and faith in God. He is the great physician and I watch him work in you everyday as you grow stronger.

Day 26
Dear Berkley,
   I missed you so much yesterday! I was so happy to see you this morning. Uncle Jeffery and Aunt B are coming to visit you today. They are counting down the days with everyone else until you come home. Everyone is waiting to love on you.
   Overnight, your right leg and foot has become more swollen. They are going to do an xray and ultrasound to see if there is anything else going on. Your rate on oxygen is 35 and pressure is down to 24. Making progress since your PDA surgery.
   PM update: Xray did not show any broken bones. Ultrasound did not show any blood clots and showed good blood circulation. The doctor does not have an answer right now but we are praising God it was neither of those. You looked the most comfortable you ever have looked tonight after 8pm cares. You had your foot propped up and was laid back relaxing. We love seeing you so peaceful. I know you are going to rest well tonight so maybe we will too!

Sleep sweet. Grow Big. Be brave. I love you.

Days 21 - 23

Day 21

Dear Berkley,
   You are still recovering from surgery and feeling some discomfort. You were really alert this morning as we sat with you. They started your food back and your swelling is going down. You are 2lbs 4 oz now, but some of that is fluid weight. Dad and I got to give you a wipe down bath tonight and you loved it. (Dont worry we got tons of pictures and a video!) We read to you tonight and overall this was one of the best days for us. God is hearing your name over and over. I know he is working on healing your body and helping you grow.
   The last few days have scared us, but you are showing us you can jump over all these hurdles that are put in front of you.  We love you so much! I'm sure some of the videos from the NICU are going to make you laugh when you're older. We already have "Berkley" voices that we use and we laugh at each other.

Day 22

Dear Berkley,
  I have been praying specifically for your lungs. Especially now after surgery, you should start making some movement with the vent. The nurses are watching your settings as well and changing when they can. Short term goal is to get you off the vent. The more your lungs mature, the closer we are to going home. We have a long road and when I think about it July is forever away. Almost so far it hurts. We will have so much catching up to do. We may never put you down once we get home. I know Dad will be trying to get you from me. He loves you so much. One day, we will get to sit down and have a long talk about your Daddy. I hope you grow up to be just like him. He loves us so much. He is my rock. He is so strong, loving, grounded, supportive, a great hugger and even better at making me laugh, and is helping me stay sane and hopeful during this time. Your old man is something pretty special. He will always be there for you, always. Until tomorrow, I love you, Daddy loves you, and God loves you.

Day 23

Dear Berkley,
   Today your feedings increased to 9mL and they are weening you down from your pain meds. Your swelling is a lot better and you are more alert. Your Oxygen is now at 40 so you are making progress. I tell you everyday how proud we are of you.
   You are a gift from God that we will never take for granted. We will enjoy every minute with you. I promise to always cherish even the small moments - to be the best mother I can be - to encourage you to follow your dreams - to let you be adventurous - to let you see the world through your own eyes - to always remember what we've been through - to remind you how strong and brave you are - to tell you "I love you" a million times a day - to show you are loved - to let you grow, but to remind you will always be my baby - to share the stories of the NICU with you and others so you know where it all started and who we are so thankful for - to tell you how happy you made us from the very beginning - and to always Thank God for giving us our once in a lifetime Miracle, You.

Sleep sweet. Grow big. Be brave. I love you.

Days 17 - 20/1st surgery

   Your baby's first surgery. I'm sure regardless of what age is scary. Being 20 days old and premature...well, that threw me into a new scare I've never experienced. I don't know why I doubted Berkley. I should have known he is one tough cookie and would go through surgery easily. Well, I say easily. He had some obstacles, but surgery went well and medicines helped stabilize him. It took him almost a week to recover as you will read.
   God has taught me so much in the last few years, but in the last month he has SHOWN me so much. There is no way to doubt God when I look at our miracle. HE is there. Our heavenly father is always there - loving us, comforting us, supporting us, guiding us, and teaching us just like our fathers do.

Matthew 7:7-8
7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.

Day 17
 Dear Berkley,
   Today I got to hold you again. I love our time together. Its so special to me now. Something I know is I cherish every moment 100x more than I ever imagined I could. Watching you overcome every obstacle that is thrown at you is something I will never let you forget. You are brave, you are strong, you are a miracle.
   The doctors confirmed you will have surgery in a few days. I just know you are going to feel so much better after it.

Day 18
Dear Berkley,
   The nurses are getting you ready for your surgery tomorrow. You have moved into an open bed. Now that you can hear all the noise and see all the light, you are not happy. You do not like all the activity going on surrounding you.  I love the open bed though because I can kiss you whenever I want. We will be here at 5:30am to spend some time with you before the doctors come at 6am. Surgery is scheduled for 7. Dad got to kangaroo with you tonight! You were so relaxed on his chest. I love you both so much!

Day 19
Dear Berkley,
   We are so proud of you. Today you had surgery and you did great. Everything went smoothly. The surgery itself only took 15 mins where it took almost two hours to get you ready and settled. The worst part for us was the waiting and watching them get you all ready for surgery. You are so strong. Some days, I think more than us. You are resting well after surgery. Pawpaw, Gammy, Nanna, Poppa, and Uncle Jeffery were all here. The NICU doctors and Dr. Clay are really pleased with how you did during surgery, your color, and oxygen levels right now.
  Dad and I talked tonight about how we are more at ease, but still very anxious. God wrapped you in his healing arms today. We are so blessed. Time is flying by, but standing still too. We are counting down the days. Praying extra tonight that you sleep well little bear.

Day 20
Dear Berkley,
   Buddy, you had a rough night. We got a few calls during the night about your blood pressure being lower than they liked and extra fluid build up.  This was all expected from surgery. I'm sitting with you now. You seem to be resting well and will open your eyes every now and then - almost to see if I'm still here. Your vent levels are up quite a bit, but the doctors expect that from your stress and possibly some fluid around the lungs. They will put you on some medicine to help work some of the fluid out.
  Today, my friend, April finished a nursery piece for you - a map that has on it "YOU ARE OUR GREATEST ADVENTURE". This holds true more than I thought when I asked her to do it before your arrival. I knew this would be a fun adventure, and truly the greatest for me and Dad. I did not count on it starting in April instead of July. But all in God's timing, not ours. We have so many things planned for you. We can not wait to see you experience things for the first time. Dad has a whole list, I'm sure half of which I will not approve. As April said, your adventure awaits. I love you so.

Sleep sweet. Grow big. Be Brave. I love you.

kangaroo time with Dad

Sitting with you after surgery

Being a Mom is hard...

   I knew that being a Mom was going to be hard. I never counted on learning how hard it really is so early in Berkley's life.  Being a mom to a preemie, to a micropreemie has changed my life.  I have a bond with complete strangers now solely on the fact that they understand me. They understand who I am now and the emotional rollercoaster I've been on since Day 1. They don't question why, they just nod in agreement with tears in their eyes. Some days you just hurt. Some days you can't get a grip on your feelings. Some days you want to be a hermit. Some days you are frustrated. Some days all these emotions and thoughts flow through me, but then I remember how strong Berkley is. For him, I'll stand in the storm.

You feel lost and helpless.

The answer to the question "why?" always seems to be "Because he's a small baby."

You can't go whenever you want and hold him or even touch him.

You try to stay positive.

When will the next roadblock be?

Will it be surgery?

Days are long and a mixture of good and bad mostly.

You stare at the Isolator wondering if he will ever get to go home.

You wonder if he knows you are there when he can't hear you or see you.

You hurt when he cries and you can't hold him close.

You ask yourself, Why him? Why us?

Sleepless nights.

Where will they put the IV next?

You celebrate milestones that most people never even experience.

You see babies get admitted and going home while he is still here.

You haven't been home in weeks.

You avoid phone calls and text just simply because you can not emotionally handle another conversation.

You lose track of the date and even what day of the week it is.

You question God's plan.

Some days you dont share news with family and friends.

You cringe when you meet a new doctor because you know something is not 'right'.

You look at every detail of him to see if anything has changed.

Did I eat today?

You pray. You pray a lot.

There's even more tears.

You wonder what he will be like, but then are reminded to take it day by day.

You wouldn't change it because he is here. You are able to touch him, to see him face to face, and to tell him you love him.

You know his life has already changed yours.

You thank God for your miracle everyday.

“She stood in the storm & when the wind did not blow her away, she adjusted her sails.” – Elizabeth Edwards

Days 14 - 16

Day 14
Dear Berkley,
   You have your little hands on everything. You pulled your eating tube out today while Mrs. Monika had you. She says, you are trouble! Your feedings are staying at 9mL until you get your last dose of medicine for the heart murmur. You are in the 2lb club now!
   I got kangaroo time today for a few hours. Dad sat with us and you just snoozed. Gammy, Nanna, Poppa, Uncle Tristen, Gracie, Uncle Jeffery, Aunt B, and Ty all came to visit today. We are all ready for you to be home.

Day 15
Dear Berkley,
   Happy 1st Easter! Today we celebrate God's promises. An old hymn has been stuck in my head for days, you have heard me humming it...Because He lives we can face tomorrow, Because He lives all fear is gone. What an awesome God we have! Everytime I look at you, I am reminded of his love, power, mercy, and our salvation. He has blessed us to be your parents, maybe that in itself is our calling. I will always teach you to go to God for guidance. He will never leave you.
   Dr. Israel is coming by in the morning to meet with us about your murmur. I am still hopefull for no surgery, but it's looking as if that is in God's plan.

First Easter!

Day 16
Dear Berkley,

Isaiah 40:11
 《He tends HIS flock like a Shepherd. He gathers the Lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart. He gently leads those that have young.》

We talked to Dr. Israel and Dr. Clay, heart surgeon, today and their recommendation is surgery to close the PDA causing your heart mumur. At this moment, the PDA is causing more respiratory issues and your levels have been fluctuating daily. They expect the surgery to take about an hour. We are scared, but praying for the doctors and nurses and for the surgery to be successful. God is with you, us, and them. He will carry is through this. I heard this scripture today on the radio as I was crying about the surgery. God always knows how to give us answers and this was Him telling me everything was going to be okay. He is carrying you. He is leading me.
   Every day now something is changing about you. Your hair is darker, you are growing in length, your eyes are opened more, you are forming new wrinkles, and love to keep your hands right by your face. You are the cutest! You have been resting well. A lot of times you give us just a one eye peek when we talk to you. You make us so happy.

Sleep sweet. Grow big. Be brave. I love you.

Days 11 - 13

Philippians 4:6

Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.




Day 11
Dear Berkley,
   Today we are PRAISING God! You have NO brain bleeds. Not one! They prepared us for the worst, we expected something, but God showed us if we ask of him he will answer. This is the BEST news! You had a good day. Feedings have moved up to 7mL, chest x-ray did not show anything abnormal, labs were good, and you are looking good.

Day 12
   Today was an extra special day. Not only did I get kangaroo time for 3 hours, but Dad sent me flowers at the hospital for our Anniversary. We've been married 4 years today. Seeing your name on the card was the sweetest. Holding you for so long put me on Cloud 9. I talked to you a lot today during our time about everyone that is praying for you. You have a huge fan club already. We talked dad a lot too. He really is the best thing that ever happened to me.
   You got your first taste of a pacifier today from Ms. Beth. You may love her now! You are up to 1lb 15oz in weight. Feedings are doing good, but we still have that heart murmur lingering. We are seeing it affect your lungs more. Praying really hard for God to close it up. These are obstacles, but overall you are doing great for a 24 weeker.  Your face is changing everyday. You look more and more like your Daddy. Maybe you'll have my eyes. ☺ See you bright and early buddy.

Day 13
  Well, you made today interesting. Just after I left this afternoon to go get food, you pulled your breathing tube out!! Yes, you at 14 days old. Mrs. Amanda was your nurse today and she got you all settled back in. You are tired from all the excitement, but resting well now. We gave you a pep talk and now your hands are in time-out under your swaddle. You are becoming more alert and I know you know our voices. Dr. Israel came back to check on you. Of course we know the heart murmur is still there, medicine will continue, but may have to look at surgery soon. This really scares us, but God is the great physician. I've been praying all day.

Sleep sweet. Grow big. Be brave. I love you.


 

Berkley's Arrival

     Hey y'all! My first post... Never in a million years would I have thought I would do something like this. But God is telling me that sometimes we go through experiences so we can share our story for the greater good.  I've always thought that some things were better off left private than the whole world knowing. I felt very strong about that as I went through fertility treatments. (More on that later.) I even felt that way just a couple weeks ago when our son, Berkley, was born prematurely at 24 weeks, 2 days. Then after talking to a few moms and seeing different post/questions on social media, I realized there can never be enough support. Why hide Berkley's journey? So here it is. I hope that this is some small way will inspire you,  give you hope, or show you that sometimes faith in what we cannot see is all we have. I know in his 24 days of life, Berkley has taught me so much about love, hope, and faith. My husband, Wes, and I are blessed to be his parents. We have watched a miracle from day 1 fight to be here, fight to overcome statistics, fight to live. From this grew, Be Brave Berkley.

     Berkley Miller Stutts was born on Saturday, April 1, 2017 at 2:36 p.m., weighing in at 1lb 14oz and measuring 12 in long. I was 24 weeks, 2 days pregnant. I went to the doctor that Thursday morning because something just wasn't quite "right". {God working #1} I was sent to our local hospital and about two hours later found out I was dilated to 6cm. WHAT?!?!? Believe me, I had a panic attack right then and there. How could this happen? There were so many questions. The next two days are one big blur. I was started on magnesium and other medicines immediately at ECM as they tried to stop my contractions. I was given several shots, one of which was a steroid shot to help Berkley's lungs mature. (This was the biggest concern due to him being just 24 weeks.)  I was transferred to Huntsville Hospital's Women and Children's center by ambulance. We were so blessed to make it here as they are better equipped to handle premature babies with their Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU).  {God working #2} The doctors and nurses  at Huntsville were great. They were able to get my contractions to slow down and we made it to Saturday before Berkley was delivered. (More on Delivery day later.) Due to the steroid shot needing 48 hours to be beneficial for his lungs, our immediate goal was to make it to 2:32p.m. Saturday before delivery. Berkley said hello to the world 4mins after our goal at at 2:36pm. {God working #3} Are you seeing the pattern? God always provides for us. It was not in our plan to deliver Berkley at 24weeks, but it was in God's. He lined up everything for us in order to have Berkley here with us. 

     Why did we not share a lot of information in the beginning and get upset when others did? When a doctor looks at you and tells you that you have to be realistic about delivery, that your son is 24 weeks old, and the statistics stack against him - you get scared, real scared. When you know there's a 50/50 chance that he may not make it through delivery or through that first day. There were a lot of tears and a lot of prayers. My son is a miracle and no matter what we face over the next few months, I'll never forget that whimper as he was laid on my chest. Almost 2lbs of a God given miracle. The nurses had prepared us that he would probably weigh a little over a pound, maybe 1.5 pounds  and that we would not hear him cry or anything at delivery due to his immature lungs. Well, there he was right before our eyes at almost 2lbs and giving me a small whimper to tell me he was going to make it. God, again, showing me not to lose my faith. He's in control. 

     I keep a journal that I write to Berkley in every day. I'm going to catch you up as this is day 23 of the NICU journey and tell you some things in between. I hope you gain some strength and hope from our journey. Joshua 1:9

To my precious son, Sleep sweet. Grow big. Be brave. I love you.